The Switchy Witch


May 17th, 2012

“Open your eyes.”

She squeezes her eyes tightly closed, body stiff, mind whirling with thoughts.

“Open your eyes,” growled into her ear.

She sucks in a breath, resisting, she slowly opens her eyes. She swallows as she is confronted with her own naked form in the full length mirror. He stands still and tall behind her, a shadow looming as she stares. She blushes and makes a move to cover herself, to turn away.

He growls again, gripping her arms he slides his hands down to her wrists, forcing her to face front again, he holds her there. He presses himself against her backside, tilting his head he breathes into her ear.

“Do you see what I see?”

She shakes her head, cheeks flushing in shame as she is not proud of what she sees in the mirror. A single tear rolls down her cheek as she is confronted with her own embarrassment. She knows he knows what she thinks of herself. She knows he knows she is ever fearful he’ll leave.

He sighs softly. He meets her eyes in the mirror, stares into the dark depths. He then starts to whisper.

“I see beauty. I see intelligence. I see fun. I see vitality. I see lust. I see fierceness. I see hunger. I see you.”

Releasing her wrists, he softly draws his fingertips up her arms, whispering still.

“I see soft skin.”

His fingers trail across her collarbone, flitting across the tops of her breasts.

“I see strength.”

She whimpers softly, closing her eyes. He taps her on the shoulder.

“Keep them open, pet.”

She opens her eyes again, unable to resist even the slightest now. He kisses her on the shoulder and resumes his exploration. His hands wander down her front..across her stomach. She flinches away as always. He grips her tightly across her stomach. Holding her. Her tears flow freely. Her eyes drop to the grip he has on her. She whispers, “Please.”

He whispers back, “Please what? Please touch what is mine? Please hold what is mine? Please worship what is mine? Please show you what is mine?” His finger explore the soft flesh of her, possessively. She shivers.

“Pet,” said ever so patiently.

She looks up, eyes meeting his. She gasps softly. She sees the passion, the lust, the heat of his want of her. She feels his desire for her. His acceptance of all of her. She weeps for it.

He smiles at her, knowing she understands now. His hands roam her body freely now. She has no desire to hide. She watches in wonder. She smiles. She stretches into him.

He growls into her ear. “Mine.”

Sadist Wakes

May 17th, 2012

I could lose myself in making a man cry, beg, plead and otherwise bleed for me.

I want to drag my nails down his back.
I want to watch him shrink and shiver away from the pain.

I want to lay my cane across his fine ass.
I want to laugh as I hear the painful sounds he makes.

I want to revel in the marks I create.
I want to see the bruises begin to form.

I want to savor the finest crimson drops.
I want to hear the begging begin.

I want to feel soft flesh squeezed between my fingers.
I want to marvel at the extraordinary amount of pain that is taken.

I want to tease a cock to hardness.
I want to slap it back down again.

I want to sink my teeth into the most sensitive of flesh.
I want to inhale the sweet scent of the body.

I want to push beyond the limits.
I want to break and reshape.

I want to leave a man crying, begging, pleading and bleeding for me.

Look at PAGES!

March 29th, 2012

Please don’t forget to check out the pages section. I may not always make a new post but there are new pages added. These are often times writings by other folk that I have found that are important to this topic!

Thanks :)

Not kinky?

February 3rd, 2012

I often wonder where I fit?
This isn’t a struggle because I feel that being kinky is “wrong” because I absolutely don’t.
But it’s more of a I really?

Do I just put on a very good front?
Is this one more thing I do for acceptance?
I’m not overly dominant.
I’m not overly submissive.
I’m a mediocre top
Even more mediocre bottom.
My skills are lacking.

Maybe I’m just not?

I’ve often pondered putting all the toys and things away and just not doing any more.

Maybe it’s time for a hiatus.

It is definitely time for a new leaf!

So to be a little melodramatic cuz really I feel like doing it just to get it out there more than I want a sympathy pat or whatever it is people feel obligated to give for the drama queens. Today I get to be the drama queen! Please feel free to roll your eyes and sigh in disgust. I already am!

Maybe I’ll take up church again.
Sex is not happening anymore!
Kink = dirty (not in a good way)
I shall work.
I shall come home and stay away from all things kinky. (yes sorry fet you will see less of me)
I shall put 100% of my focus on all things “normal” riding, working, riding, working,
Making money will be far more important than happiness.
I will be alone, not to be confused with lonely.
I shall cast aside all thoughts of a meaningful relationship.
My reclusiveness will chase away my friends.
all good things must come to an end!

Well ok. Who am I kidding? I’ll probably only do half of those things. hahahahaha.

I am however, slightly serious about disappearing. Focus on me and get myself centered and right with life and the world. I need to find my zen. c

Happy New Year!

January 5th, 2012

Hope the year is off to a great start for all of y’all! So far so good for me! My resolution, specifically for this site is to get on the ball and start putting more articles out. Getting people to notice!

If you’re kinky and you know it, shout it out!

Have a great year everybody and may all your kinky dreams come true!

Pages and what not…

December 3rd, 2011

I just wanna put it out there that even though I may not put up a post every day, I also post pages. Anything that I post from someone else will be posted as a page with the link to their original writing. Also, so far the posts have come from fetlife. If you want to read the original post or comment on them, you must be a member. This is the reason I copy the entire writing and post it here. Please check them out. They won’t always be in direct relation to switches but they will pertain to BDSM and will be important messages that everyone needs to read.

Merry reading!

Writing writing writing…

November 21st, 2011

I know, I need to get on the ball and get more stuff up here that actually deals with switch topics. I DO have topics to write about, it’s just a matter of getting the words on paper.

Please if you have topic ideas, post and I’ll see research it and post on it!

Houston Fetish Fleamarket Fair Review!

November 16th, 2011

So this past weekend I was at the Houston FFF. It was my first big kinky event in Texas and I was very pleased! The classes were great and the parties too. There were some great vendors. As is usual at events like this everyone was extremely friendly and very welcoming.

Second year for the FFF to be in Houston. I think as the event grows it will get better and better. I highly recommend this event for all folks no matter where they are in their exploration of kink. The energy is always great and people are very willing to answer questions and show newbies the ropes!

For those of you who have never attended an event such as this here’s a little bit about what happens!

This particular event was 3 days long. Started Friday and ended Sunday. During the day there were different classes put on by individuals who are part of our community. The classes consisted of various topics, examples from this FFF : Face slapping, obedience vs submission, rope tying, puppy play, a master’s responsibility, to name a few.

Friday evening there was an auction that benefited NCSF (National Coalition of Sexual Freedom). People offered themselves up for bidding and offered to do a scene be it educational or full on play, they also came with a toy. Was a fantastic way to meet people!

Friday and Saturday night there were play parties. This venue did not allow full nudity. The dungeon was set up nicely, plenty of play stations and there were lots of things going on. I saw suspensions, floggings, paddlings, couples playing, groups playing and lots of other things too!

Of course, the vending! Vendors were set up for the entire weekend selling their wares. There was everything from corsets to paddles, to single tails to dungeon furniture and everything in between.

It was a great experience and I hope you will check it out next year!

Dates are already set August 10-12, 2012!

“He who is not a good servant will not be a good master” ~Plato

October 28th, 2011

I found this quote today and I think in just a few short words it tells us something of what it means to be a switch.

I have often heard over the years from people that in order for a dominant person to be excellent at what they do, they need to personally feel whatever it is they are going to do to their submissive. Does this make them a switch? no. Can they feel what their submissive is going to feel? In the physical sense, yes absolutely. Mentally? I think not. I do not think anyone who claims 100% one label or the other can ever truly feel how someone in the opposing position feels. I am absolutely not trying to discredit how those people feel or saying that they are wrong, however, we are, after all, here to learn and read about the switch nature!

As a switch I do truly feel, physically and mentally, what a 100% submissive or dominant feels in their position. I run the entire gauntlet of emotions and thought processes. When I am submitting or even just bottoming for a scene I am fully immersed in the position. I truly have the desire to make my top or dominant happy. The same goes for the opposite position. Not only do I become fully entrenched in the position but whatever position I take I feel empathy. I have a deeper knowledge of what my gift of submission or dominance means to the other person. My empathy quite possibly allows me to take a step further into whichever head space I am currently occupying. When I’m creating reaction because of something I am doing to the physical body, I empathize and oh does the sadist come out and play even harder. The empathy I feel when I’m receiving physical sensations pushes me even harder to take them because I know on a much deeper level just how much joy that person takes in giving.

So I say, Plato made an excellent observation.

The Witch is in!

October 17th, 2011

Dominant, submissive, top, bottom, where do we fit? There are so many labels and so many combinations for people in this lifestyle. Where do I fit? It took me a very long time to determine where I fit, what label I should attach to myself. I am a switch. I proudly wear the tag and I truly feel like it describes me down to the letter. I am dominant. I am submissive. I can top and I can bottom. Am I jack of all trades? Maybe. Do I fit into each category and perform to the best of my ability? Absolutely.

Like most people, I think, I very much dealt in absolutes when I started exploring BDSM. When I first started this journey, I was bound and determined that I was a submissive. There was not a dominant bone in my body (HA!). My friends, my husband at the time, hell anybody I met laughed in my face on a pretty regular basis when I claimed my submission. There was a lot of “You’re deluding yourself..there’s not a submissive bone in your body.” It used to make me angry that people just wouldn’t believe me. I knew there was. There was a whole side of me that most people in my every day life never got to see. This untapped part of me that was screaming to come out. So, I was reading everything I could get my hands on, talking to people on the internet, learning. It was a long time before I heard the term switch. It was an even longer time before I admitted that this is where I fit. 
Now of course, I’m firmly entrenched. I have contemplated this idea for a long while. The idea of bringing information, sharing, helping other’s who see themselves as switches. There really is not a lot of information to be found. I see people ask questions. I see people who are so dead set against the possibility of a switch. So, maybe I can educate. It is my biggest hope that I can give a well rounded view on this topic and many others that relate to it!



The Switchy Witch is in!

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