The Witch is in!

October 17th, 2011

Dominant, submissive, top, bottom, where do we fit? There are so many labels and so many combinations for people in this lifestyle. Where do I fit? It took me a very long time to determine where I fit, what label I should attach to myself. I am a switch. I proudly wear the tag and I truly feel like it describes me down to the letter. I am dominant. I am submissive. I can top and I can bottom. Am I jack of all trades? Maybe. Do I fit into each category and perform to the best of my ability? Absolutely.

Like most people, I think, I very much dealt in absolutes when I started exploring BDSM. When I first started this journey, I was bound and determined that I was a submissive. There was not a dominant bone in my body (HA!). My friends, my husband at the time, hell anybody I met laughed in my face on a pretty regular basis when I claimed my submission. There was a lot of “You’re deluding yourself..there’s not a submissive bone in your body.” It used to make me angry that people just wouldn’t believe me. I knew there was. There was a whole side of me that most people in my every day life never got to see. This untapped part of me that was screaming to come out. So, I was reading everything I could get my hands on, talking to people on the internet, learning. It was a long time before I heard the term switch. It was an even longer time before I admitted that this is where I fit. 
Now of course, I’m firmly entrenched. I have contemplated this idea for a long while. The idea of bringing information, sharing, helping other’s who see themselves as switches. There really is not a lot of information to be found. I see people ask questions. I see people who are so dead set against the possibility of a switch. So, maybe I can educate. It is my biggest hope that I can give a well rounded view on this topic and many others that relate to it!

So..

The Switchy Witch is in!